These are some discord servers I like or am aware of with invite links. I’m not active in all of them. I can’t vouch for whether they’re positive spaces for everyone or whether they’ll be a good place for you or not. Remember that participating in community fandom spaces comes with the responsibility of curating your own experience. Discord has block features which I recommend you explore. Chanels, categories, and servers all have mute and notification options as well. Make it work for you!
Many of these are 18+. I’ve done my best to mark which ones are, but make sure you carefully read the rules with every new server you join.
- Put on the Suit – MCU, Steve Rogers/Tony Stark – 18+
- The A Stands for Asshole – Ultimates, Steve Rogers/Tony Stark – 18+
- You Gave Me a Home – 616,vSteve Rogers/Tony Stark – 18+
- STB Enthusiasts – Steve/Tony, Tony/Bucky, Steve/Bucky, Steve/Tony/Bucky – 18+
- Pod on the Suit – Podcast hosted by Ferret and Flame – 18+
- Marvel Trumps Hate – For the annual MTH charity auction – All Ships/Subfandoms – All Ages
- Winteriron – Tony Stark/Bucky Barnes – 18+
- Marvel Collab Cupid – A collaboration-finding server for all Marvel ships and subfandoms – 18+
- Bringing Food to the Lab – Steve Rogers/Tony Stark – All Ages
- Earth-616 – All 616 Ships and Subfandoms – 18+
- Winterhawk – Bucky Barnes/Clint Barton
- Secret Wars – Secret Wars Social Deduction Game – 17+, SFW
If any of these are no longer working or don’t link to the correct server, please let me know!